That vow you made before God and man when you got married is more than flowery words, it was a promise to her and to God of what you would do. Are you keeping those vows?
Some people write their own vows. Others recite the ones from a book, or the ones that the officiant has prepared.
Do you remember your wedding vows?
Did you promise your spouse things like to be faithful, to be there in good times and bad?
Looking back on those vows, do they help you to stay focused and keep you together or have you forgotten about them?
Are you keeping your wedding vows to your husband before God?